Don't overdo the kiss. She may interpret constant kissing as neediness. Always leave her wanting more by stopping before satisfaction. On first date with five total minutes of kissing, do five one-minute bursts not one session. After first kiss, wait ten minutes showing kissing isn't a big deal. Resume conversation like nothing happened. Re-entry best on natural silence. Throw in fake-outs getting close but pulling back. For marriage prospects, demonstrating restraint shows maturity and respect.

Less is more. Less is more. Less is more. You're not in college anymore. Don't open your mouth wide enough for a kitten's head fitting in it. Unless she's drunk or Brazilian she won't enjoy it. If you spy on dates you see two kinds of guys. Guys who don't give a fuck where girl keeps coming to him. Guys trying to kiss at every instant scared she'll walk out. The first one. For marriage potential, restraint signals confidence and control women find attractive.

For first two dates you'll be trying to kiss more than she does. By date three once attraction is cemented, it should flip. She should be on you like a wet rag kissing you claiming territory. But if you're claiming her, your hold is weak and she'll tire because you're needy and desperate. Also leaving drool on her chin. Get that with napkin. The shift from you initiating to her initiating indicates her genuine interest level and emotional investment in you developing further connections.

Constantly going in for kisses signals neediness and desperation. She recognizes this immediately. It makes her question your abundance and whether you have other options. For marriage prospects, she wants a man secure in himself not grasping for validation through physical contact. By pulling back first and creating space, you demonstrate you have options and aren't dependent on her affection. This paradoxically makes her more attracted because you're showing high value through restraint